Unlocking the Power of Manifestation: Why Letting Go of TikTok Could Be the Key
What did she saayyyyyyyy?!!!
Hello, my name is Starla, and I am now 5 days Tik Tok free… I must emphasize that I am far from being in recovery! In fact, I feel absolutely amazing!
I downloaded Tik Tok back in the days of lockdown and back then it was an absolute blessing! I needed some of the silence filled with the sound of repetitive songs, and sound bites, we were all in it together, creating silly videos and sharing our messages.
But then as the years went by I started to notice how much it was changing, in order to get anyone’s attention you had to move the camera around like you were on a fairground ride, speak really fast, and never get to your point until the last ten seconds of a 5-minute video!
Well, I have never liked to fit inside a box, give me moral rules, and ill stick to them, give me ridiculous hoops to jump through, and ill lose interest fast. All I was trying to do at the end of the day was advertise my business, share knowledge, and help people…not learn how to speak at the speed of a chipmunk in order to get some air time!
But that isn’t why I deleted it. I am a firm believer in choosing the media we watch, we live in a world where we are constantly being told what to watch, what to wear, and who to be… and Tik Tok has essentially become the new media. A slew of opinions present themselves as facts, to the point where if you have a huge following anything you say can go viral and no one will question it.
I was over all the misleading manifestation methods, long videos that never get to the point, news that really isn’t news, and countless videos of people shaming people they have never met. So I left.
In case I decide to return to Tik Tok in the future, it will be for brief and exciting updates on my business ventures and more. Rest assured, I won't conform to any "rules" for content creation just to grab attention. However, for now, the positive downloads I received from the platform remain as videos saved to share with family and friends. But once they're gone, that means I'll have to come up with fresh and inventive ways to keep them amused! 😉
So just like a frustrating “skip to the end” Tik Tok video, when is this blog post going to talk about manifestation already!!!
“Where focus goes, energy flows.”
When we become more and more conscious about the thoughts we have and where our energy is being directed, we start to notice where we are abundant and which areas need more work. When we take breaks from work, socializing, and all the important life stuff where do we relax? … generally on social media, so if we are listening to a multitude of different opinions about different nonrelating subjects every day then our subconscious is picking it all up, processing it in the background. let’s say for example, that when you were little someone told you that you were not worthy, and it stuck, you were hurt by the interaction and that memory was imprinted big time! Then throughout your life in seemingly unrelated ways, other people and circumstances told you the same thing, from the ex that broke your heart at 16 to the dress that didn’t fit at 20 and the boss that shouted at you at 25… a belief was created “I’m not good enough”.
As you progressed along your journey, you took charge and rewrote the narrative, instilling empowering beliefs into your mind. However, the emergence of social media disrupted this positive transformation. The constant influx of information, from memes to videos and comment sections, began to overwhelm you, inadvertently reactivating the old program of feeling "not good enough."
5 Ways you can stay in your manifesting power
Remember to keep in mind that when you encounter differing opinions that clash with your own, it's important to understand that many individuals might be projecting their own insecurities, fears, and doubts onto their views. Just as the first person who once made you feel inadequate might have been struggling with their own sense of worth, these people you encounter may also be facing similar feelings of inadequacy. Instead of getting entangled in their journey, allow them the space to figure out their paths on their own. You need not engage in their internal struggles instead, focus on your growth and well-being.
Tailor your feeds in a way that mirrors the person you aspire to be and aligns with the world you wish to create for yourself. Surround yourself with content that is positive, uplifting, empowering, creative, and funny. By curating your digital environment with such enriching elements, you can shape your online experience to be a source of inspiration and motivation, fostering personal growth and fostering a positive outlook on life, manifesting what you want VS what you don’t want… your online environment is just as important as the surroundings in your home, do some life laundry, you won’t regret it!
Take breaks. There are so many different apps now to help you with downtime, so take advantage of them, and start doing the things you may have been putting off. What did you use to do before social media? How will you use this time now to help benefit your life and the life you are manifesting? Could you incorporate that 15-minute yoga session? go for a walk? do you now have time to meditate every day?
Our manifestations reflect our true selves rather than just our desires, so who are you manifesting? consider if who you are now, what you do, how you spend your time and the actions you are currently taking align with the person you aspire to become. if you notice a significant gap between the two then focus your energy back on you, and make the necessary changes that will support future you.
Avoid sharing your inner turmoil and frustrations with strangers on the internet or on your Facebook feed with people you know. Instead, find solace in your journal, where you can pour your thoughts freely, knowing there is no judgment and no perceivably regretful 2 am rants about life. Consider confiding in a trusted friend, allowing both of you to release and support one another. Be mindful of choosing specific spaces to vent, ensuring they are conducive to your growth and well-being and exciting manifestations.
Take back control
I’m guessing you hadn’t fully grasped the influence of social media on your life, mindset, and the outcomes you're trying to manifest. My aim is to shed light on this aspect and empower you to reclaim control, so you can confidently continue paving the path toward the life you are actively manifesting.
So, what's life like after saying goodbye to TikTok? Let me tell you, it's been quite a transformation! I've been investing more time in my exciting projects and noticing a new level of concentration emerging, with my focus reaching a whole new level of intensity. When I seek outside inspiration, I've turned to platforms like Pinterest and Instagram which I can tailor more specifically for my individual needs. Moreover, my podcast playlist has expanded, and I find myself diving into more books than ever before. But that's not all! I've infused my daily routine with soul-nurturing activities like an increase in my meditation practices, scripting, and somatic dance.
The most significant change has been waking up to my own power once again. No longer caught up in absorbing other people's emotions, feelings, and thoughts, I've taken control of my mindset on a whole other level, tailoring it to my liking. And let me tell you, it feels absolutely incredible! If you haven't tried this approach, I highly recommend giving it a go. Embracing this new path has made all the difference in my life, and I'm confident it can do the same for you!
Side note
I am currently working on some big and exciting projects, and I really wanted to give my ALL to them hence the downtime, my podcast, blogs, and all that sparkly jazz will be back soon, in the meantime let me know if there are any specific topics you would like me to talk about in my upcoming episodes, and let me me know if this blog post helped you out. In the meantime, keep shining bright! The world needs more people like YOU.
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